Are We Dating The Same Guy Uncensored Lusaka/Copala

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12/08/2023

INBOX RE: FARTING IN FRONT OF YOUR PARTNER

“I have a history of unhealthy relationships but have spent a long time on my own working things out. I’m now ready for something healthy and meaningful.

Started talking to a man recently and things have been going well. Until we had a discussion on farts! I am partial to a trump or two and feel fart competitions are a part of a healthy loving relationship. I would actually feel disappointed in myself if my partner didn’t feel comfortable enough to fart around me. He says farting in front of your partner is unacceptable, and that he would compromise and ‘allow’ me to fart in front of him once a month, WTF?

Am I a weirdo? Thinking we may not actually be compatible now 😂”

04/08/2023

Details in the comment section

01/08/2023

So him and I have been talking non-exclusively since about June he is very aggressive sexually and I am def more into the kinkier side of things as well…but when I told him some of the things he was doing, weren’t what I like he would tell me how dumb I am and that he’s been in the B**M community forever and knows how to do things appropriately and I’m just wrong…. He uses the word “Ret*rd* very frequently even though I have asked him not to because my sisters are autistic and I’ve seen how hurtful that word can be and then he would tell me how I’m a stupid liberal. He also uses the N-word with a hard R and says he can do that because he grew up in LA. He talks about being a gentleman but in reality he has no respect for women whatsoever. if you ever tell him that he is in the wrong, or that whatever he is saying is not true, he will defend himself until he’s blue in the face this man could lie to you and tell you the sun is black And will try to get you to believe it and when you don’t he will tell you you’re crazy or insane. after finding out he has been on Hinge and was not truthful when I asked him about it multiple times he decided to gaslight me and say how I’m sketchy because I always have bruises on myself so him being on a dating site shouldn’t matter (I have bruises because I’m epileptic and fall when I have seizures frequently )… I honestly would not care if he was on a dating website, or if he’s going on dates in general, because we are not exclusive however…if I bluntly ask him and I’ve been honest with him the entire time for him to lie and then continue to not use protection with me isnt cool…All in all, he’s a fun friend to see once in a blue moon, but I would not invest any time into this man unless you like being degraded, and told how stupid you are, and having r**e jokes about you.

08/07/2023

I got 2 reactions and 2 replies on my recent top post! Thank you all for your continued support. I could not have done it without you. 🙏🤗🎉